Oh my word... as a follow on to the liberating website I found re stepmothers (below) i thought i'd have a hunt around for some more empowering resources and i found this... http://www.stepsforstepmothers.com - now i'm sure some of these people are nice but some of the posts! Jes' I thought i was a cow - some of these people are out of control - 'I don't want my sick step daughter in the house', 'i make am making my husband wipe down every surface she touches because of her germs' 'she doesn;t wash her hands properly' 'i'm disengaging with my step children because i can't cope' My god! They're children not axe murderers!!! Get a grip! I feel like Mary Poppins in comparison to some of these loons....

Another positive outcome i guess... : )